emotional independence

Why We Do Not Pay Attention, And How To

18 January 2012

The cause of many mistakes and arguments is due to a lack of attention to instructions, or the conversation. This is a frustrating problem because most people are reasonably intelligent and can focus or appear to focus on a conversation well enough, yet too many vital bits of information are often missed causing a lot [...]

Does Fear Of Love Prevent Finding Happiness

27 December 2011

As your eyes focus on one point, but your peripheral vision takes in and registers so much more in your subconscious, so do all your senses, of smell, sounds, touch, and taste. Self-improvement as well as inner peace and happiness can only be found when the fear of love is eliminated. The fear stems from what [...]

Did You Choose To Believe It?

20 December 2011

The question of having a choice is an interesting one about personal power, it is one we choose to believe. If you truly had a choice in your life and actions, would you do the many things you do that are detrimental to your self or others? How many times a month, a week, a [...]

Time And The Search For Knowledge

14 December 2011

The search for knowledge and self-improvement drives many people in the path of personal growth. Knowledge and information are not the same although our educated minds have confused the two and made them one from the intellectual point of view. Information is like any other item, it can be collected and accumulated. To do this, [...]

What Is The Real Pain Behind Lies, Deceit And Broken Trust

7 December 2011

We have all been lied to, cheated, tricked and hurt. Sometimes it is just the common result of business, other times it is incompetence or a lack of accepting responsibility, but most of the time it is someone who is either a stranger or at least not very close to you, and this can upset [...]

The Factual Definition Of The Word SIN From the Original Bible

2 December 2011

This article is about the incorrect interpretation of the word and concept of ‘sin’ in the Bible. Here is its original definition. This research was done by my brother Michael, a truly great scholar and infinite source of accurate information as he has learnt many of the ancient languages, last count at 12. Michael has [...]

How To Feel Love And Remove All Emotional Obstacles

23 November 2011

The Law of Opposites is unavoidable in our world. It simply states that for everything, its opposite must also exist. This applies to temperature; hot and cold, weight; heavy and light, and emotions; love and hate. This article is about Love. Unfortunately, being a human on earth, that means there has to be an opposite [...]

How To Know The Truth Is The Real Question

9 November 2011

Asking for the truth is the ultimate question but first we have to know how to know it. The way is through direct experience by our objective observation of our self. Can you see how subjective you are in your view of everything you encounter.  How everything you hear about you fit into your previous [...]

Moses and the Burning Bush

4 November 2011

True, pure and real emotion is so overwhelming that one feels an expansion in the centre of the chest that grows and continues to grow, issuing forth a physical sensation of pressure, an almost solid but fluid substance. As it flows forth, the body becomes weak yet not weak, it melts and keeps its form. [...]

Why Spirituality Cannot Help You Overcome Your Issues

30 October 2011

Many people complain that their parents did things to them as a child which have negatively effected them emotionally as an adult. These emotional issues are based on the memories. The memories are real, but the reality today is that the problem is in fact just memories.   The problem is not that your parents [...]

How To Know When To Let Go, And How

26 October 2011

How do you know when to let go, in business or personal situations in life. This is a very difficult question, but one that is vital to living a life that continuously moves forward. Afterall this planet is moving through space at 1,350,000 miles an hour, so we may as well keep moving also, it [...]

Find The Demon Inside Your Mind

22 October 2011

In order to fix something, you must first know that it is broken. Now you can target the part that is broken, and then fix it. The problem is that although most people are aware there is something wrong, they do not know what the real problem is, and so cannot fix it. This is [...]

Is Humanity Safe To Be Self-Governed

19 October 2011

Lao Tzu wrote in the Tao Te Ching; ‘…To have harmony in the kingdom, keep the people’s belly full and bed warm.’ He was speaking of how to keep the country running peacefully through accepting the reality that if people are in want, they will react violently, even if that is self-defeating. What can we [...]

Groups Create Separation

10 October 2011

The existence or need of any group; political, religious or social such as men’s/women’s groups, implies that there is an opposing group that one must resist. If there is harmony, then there is no need for a group of people to gather and unify in order to resist an opposing force. However, the creation of [...]

How To Find Hope When There Is No Hope Left

30 September 2011

Do you feel like this; I have no hope for my life, I lost my job and am too old to get another one, I have no money, I cannot find a partner, I am tired, life sucks, I live in a dump and cannot afford a better place to live, my car is an [...]

Is It Depression Or Boredom

22 September 2011

There is a big difference between being bored or depressed, however they appear the same in an adult, and so boredom becomes confused with depression. The longer you are bored, the more you will think and appear to others to be depressed, If it lasts too long, you may eventually become depressed, but in fact [...]

Do Our Thoughts Create Events Or, Do Events Create Our Thoughts

19 September 2011

This is a question of action and reaction. Do we create events or do the events form our way of thinking, and then once formed, do we influence events. Certainly one thing is clear, if there are negative events, our thoughts will normally become negative. If this continues long enough, it will be difficult to [...]

love and Love

17 September 2011

The difference between love that fades and love that lasts is the latter is joined with sincere and worthy admiration.

Pressure Causes Stress, Resistance Causes Pressure

11 September 2011

This article will explain the cause of stress related to the pressures of life and how to eliminate the negative effects. Not only will that be explained, but you will also find how to use the pressure in a positive way. If you push on something, it resists being pushed. This applies to any material [...]

The Simplicity of Life

6 September 2011

Searching for the meaning of life, ultimate reality? Thinking of going into a monastery because life is too tough? What do you think the right path to truth may be? There must be some special, mystical, hidden secret teaching or school out there that will bring you to liberation of the suffering and confusion of [...]

Stress and the Flow of Nature

26 August 2011

Every machine has natural limitations, its individual capacity. When it is stretched beyond its capacity, it will be stressed. Please bear in mind for this talk that the word Stress is meant like stretched to its maximum. No machine exists that is a whole unit. All machines are a sum of parts. A machine does [...]