emotional independence

Find The Demon Inside Your Mind

22 October 2011

In order to fix something, you must first know that it is broken. Now you can target the part that is broken, and then fix it. The problem is that although most people are aware there is something wrong, they do not know what the real problem is, and so cannot fix it. This is [...]

Is Humanity Safe To Be Self-Governed

19 October 2011

Lao Tzu wrote in the Tao Te Ching; ‘…To have harmony in the kingdom, keep the people’s belly full and bed warm.’ He was speaking of how to keep the country running peacefully through accepting the reality that if people are in want, they will react violently, even if that is self-defeating. What can we [...]

Groups Create Separation

10 October 2011

The existence or need of any group; political, religious or social such as men’s/women’s groups, implies that there is an opposing group that one must resist. If there is harmony, then there is no need for a group of people to gather and unify in order to resist an opposing force. However, the creation of [...]

How To Find Hope When There Is No Hope Left

30 September 2011

Do you feel like this; I have no hope for my life, I lost my job and am too old to get another one, I have no money, I cannot find a partner, I am tired, life sucks, I live in a dump and cannot afford a better place to live, my car is an [...]

Is It Depression Or Boredom

22 September 2011

There is a big difference between being bored or depressed, however they appear the same in an adult, and so boredom becomes confused with depression. The longer you are bored, the more you will think and appear to others to be depressed, If it lasts too long, you may eventually become depressed, but in fact [...]

Do Our Thoughts Create Events Or, Do Events Create Our Thoughts

19 September 2011

This is a question of action and reaction. Do we create events or do the events form our way of thinking, and then once formed, do we influence events. Certainly one thing is clear, if there are negative events, our thoughts will normally become negative. If this continues long enough, it will be difficult to [...]

love and Love

17 September 2011

The difference between love that fades and love that lasts is the latter is joined with sincere and worthy admiration.

Pressure Causes Stress, Resistance Causes Pressure

11 September 2011

This article will explain the cause of stress related to the pressures of life and how to eliminate the negative effects. Not only will that be explained, but you will also find how to use the pressure in a positive way. If you push on something, it resists being pushed. This applies to any material [...]

The Simplicity of Life

6 September 2011

Searching for the meaning of life, ultimate reality? Thinking of going into a monastery because life is too tough? What do you think the right path to truth may be? There must be some special, mystical, hidden secret teaching or school out there that will bring you to liberation of the suffering and confusion of [...]

Stress and the Flow of Nature

26 August 2011

Every machine has natural limitations, its individual capacity. When it is stretched beyond its capacity, it will be stressed. Please bear in mind for this talk that the word Stress is meant like stretched to its maximum. No machine exists that is a whole unit. All machines are a sum of parts. A machine does [...]

Is The Law Of Attraction Really That All Pervading

2 August 2011

Most proponents of the Law of Attraction argue that you attract everything into your life. This view makes it hard to explain events such as the death of a loved one. People say that my view of ‘logic to life’ makes more sense but it hardly makes life spiritual in the way most people think [...]

Where Did We Come From

30 July 2011

This is the question that so many people ask. Some have found comfort in religion and the different versions of God, but I, like many people, find that a bit hard to accept, so I have spent my life, and continue to look further each day, to find an answer. The first clue is that [...]

A Prince On The Garbage Dump

19 July 2011

In many mystical teachings there is a common thought which, if you think about it, may help you get a better grip on your life. Here are a few different lines, read each one on its own, and then see how they all come together like pieces of a jigsaw: * God created all creatures [...]

Suffering, The Cause Of Suffering, And The End Of Suffering

11 July 2011

Buddha said that life is suffering and that the cause of suffering is desire. That is a very clear and obvious truth. If I desire something, that means I do not have it, and if I want or need something that I do not have, that craving for it does imply suffering to some degree. [...]

How to End Pain and Be Happy

6 July 2011

Many people who believe in karma (the law of cause and effect in respect to previous incarnations if you believe in that) have the concept that the negative situations that happen to them are a type of karmic debt. That somehow they deserve whatever bad things have befallen them, either in business, or in relationships. [...]

Finding Like Minds

28 June 2011

This article is a gamble. When you read it, maybe you will identify with what is written, or think I am a fool. I have written this for a purpose and I am willing to take that risk. All I ask is that if the subject interests you, then please read the whole article so [...]

The Danger Of Rumours

16 June 2011

Keep this in mind the next time you are about to repeat a rumour or spread gossip. One day an acquaintance ran up to Peter excitedly and said, “Do you know what I just heard about John?” “Wait a moment,” Peter replied, “Before you tell me I’d like you to pass a little test. It’s [...]

Tantra And Humanitys Spiritual Progression. Where We Go Wrong And Right

6 June 2011

Many people think that humanity is reaching a higher spiritual level than ever before. I think those people have not been to the historical sites and probably lived through TV and the internet. Certainly there are many things on the internet which simply based on volume and dissemination of information would justify that claim, but [...]

Fitting In And Feeling Out Of Place

2 June 2011

One of the many drawbacks to western culture is the lack of involvement and devotion on a deeply personal level to anything or anyone. When I was in Cambodia I spent a few days with a group from Singapore who was there as a charity project bringing cloths and supplies to the poor. There is [...]

How To Love Yourself

30 May 2011

You cannot make yourself love yourself just as you cannot make yourself love another person. Loving yourself is a result, rather than a cause, of a changed personality. When you have rid yourself of qualities that you dislike or are no longer limited by fears and inhibitions, or you just happen to have a a [...]

A Shocking And Disturbing Reality About Low Self-Esteem

27 May 2011

People will never change if they think they are alright. This is simply logical, why put in effort to fix what is not broken. We must see and realize that it is NOT alright to accept anything and everything. To accept mediocrity and negativity negates the possibility of progress. This applies to being short changed [...]

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